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2nd Caesarean Delivery
Posted by Naran S Balakumar
Kittu
My sister’s caesarean delivery is scheduled in next week. This is her second delivery. First one was also a C-section delivery. What should we chant when she is in operation theatre so that there are no complications? Also, after delivery what should we chant for her speedy recovery?
Naran
Chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”.
Write her name in a paper. Draw a circle around her name. Draw one more concentric circle around the first one. Write LALITHAM LAMBODARAM in the gap.
Kittu
Thank you for giving your kind advice. My sis gave birth to a baby girl and both are doing fine.
Just want to ask what should she chant for better milk flow and to feed baby well?
Naran
Ask her to take the Bach Flower Remedy WALNUT for Motherhood.
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No love from husband
Posted by Naran S Balakumar
Aarti
Referring the blog: http://wp.me/ptUIO-2f
Very nice post!
But I have a doubt in mind. In my case, I and my husband got married 3 years back. He said he loved me and asked my father for our marriage. My father agreed (I also liked him). But, his parents were not ready for this (still they keep torturing me for the same) at the time of our marriage.
He was engaged to one girl forcefully by his parents. That girl use to torture him and dominate him for everything. We were friends at that time. He realized his love for me and approached my father for the same.
But after marriage everything changed. His parents tortured us though we are not staying together. He never loved me the way a husband loves his wife. Not even for the initial few days. Till date he has not said anything good to me, and no intimacy between us since we got married.
I never got emotional and physical love, which every girl dreams of when she is about to get married. I asked him to go to a doctor many times, but he never accepted he has any problems. I have cried a lot in front of him, but he laughs. How he can laugh when I am crying if he said he loved me?
This had been happening right from the start. I am frustrated. Now, I get a feeling he is not right person for me. Last three weeks I am crying telling him how I feel, for which he has an answer, “I don’t know why I behave like this”. Can’t he see my pain?
Also, he is very selfish he only think of himself. He does not give me any respect. I am angry and frustrated. I am 32 years old waiting for my husband to love me. I don’t have time as I want a baby also, but before that I want a good loving and a caring husband.
Now, if I feel I should divorce him. Am I feeling wrong? Also don’t I deserve love and physical intimacy from my husband? Am I asking too much?
He says do whatever I feel is right. If I feel I should divorce him, he says to go ahead and do it. Why did he marry me? I feel just to get rid of that previous girl.
As I understand I don’t nag him for anything. What should I do should I divorce him? Will I have a good life? Please help me.
Naran
Most of the times, women suffer much at the hands of husbands.
Take the flower remedy AGRIMONY and SWEET CHESTNUT, two pills, three times a day.
Chant “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME I LOVE YOU I THANK YOU”
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Might be menopause
Posted by Naran S Balakumar
Lura
What is the best Switch Word to get rid of tingling sensation for hands especially at night while sleeping?
Naran
It may be a deficiency of ca mg and potassium. What is your age?
Lura
I am in my mid-forties.
Naran
Do you have any physical problem – diabetes or BP?
Lura
Yes, I have high BP and recently I am missing my periods for last 4 months. It might be menopause.
Naran
I suggest you to treat your high BP with pranayama and yoga.
Take calciphos, mag phos and kali phos, each 6x, buy these tablets from homeopathy shop and take three each, for three times a day.
Consult a doctor for menopause.
Take the Bach flower remedy WALNUT.
Chant the mantra, “VAJRESWARI VAAMADEVI VAYOVASTHAA VIVARJITHA” as many times as possible.
Lura
I did take allopathic medication. But, after several side effects, I started taking Ayurvedic medicine and was doing well.
But, last few months, 2 or 3 days before my period started, my BP always gets very low and gets normal after my period started. And after my period is over, I used to have high BP for a day. This was just like a routine for me.
I talked to my family doctor, he said it’s hormonal. On the top of that 2012 Feb, twice I had periods.
After that I lost my period for 4 months. Since Last year, 2012 Dec I am getting sick almost every day both physically and mentally.
I just can’t take this anymore. I want to live and enjoy life just like others.
Naran
If it is normal ignore it.
The body is trying to adjust to the menopause period. I suggested you WALNUT, which will help you to adjust.
Menopause is a period of hormonal withdrawal preparing the body to handle aging. Co-operate with the body by shedding your fear.
Take MIMULUS (for fear) along with Walnut. Our fear about the body prevents the body from healing itself.
Thank your periods, your uterus, and your menopause.
Chant “I allow the body to adjust to this phase of life”.
Explanation
To know more about VAJRESWARI mantra, please check out: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/12/19/i-dont-want-to-be-bed-ridden-and-remain-youthful/
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Career never took off
Posted by Naran S Balakumar
KC
I am 41 years old. My biggest disappointment is my career never really took off.
I was a bright student and topped university during master’s degree. The work opportunities that I got were after much hard work.
But the things never worked out at the workplace for some reason or the other. I always had problems with superiors. I had to quit and undergo humiliation.
In my life, most of the women I have encountered in the form of neighbours, friends, mother-in-law, boss, sister-in-law, sister, sometimes even mother, have shown and experienced their hatred and jealous side. I have suffered much humiliation.
The surprising part was when I analyse was they all wanted me to be under their control. I suffered and still suffering when I tried to free myself.
Money has always been a problem. Life at times seem directionless to me.
Naran
Analyse what you want.
Analyse your weak points within.
Judge yourself.
Classify yourself.
Find out which behaviour of yours or which belief or which opinion about others prevents you from getting affection from others.
Make a list and try not to behave in the same old fashion.
Chant, “I AM SORRY! PLEASE FORGIVE ME! I LOVE YOU! I THANK YOU DIVINE!” whenever you meet a person.
Let this run in your mind throughout.
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