No love from husband
Posted by Elsol
Referring the blog: http://wp.me/ptUIO-2f
Very nice post!
But I have a doubt in mind. In my case, I and my husband got married 3 years back. He said he loved me and asked my father for our marriage. My father agreed (I also liked him). But, his parents were not ready for this (still they keep torturing me for the same) at the time of our marriage.
He was engaged to one girl forcefully by his parents. That girl use to torture him and dominate him for everything. We were friends at that time. He realized his love for me and approached my father for the same.
But after marriage everything changed. His parents tortured us though we are not staying together. He never loved me the way a husband loves his wife. Not even for the initial few days. Till date he has not said anything good to me, and no intimacy between us since we got married.
I never got emotional and physical love, which every girl dreams of when she is about to get married. I asked him to go to a doctor many times, but he never accepted he has any problems. I have cried a lot in front of him, but he laughs. How he can laugh when I am crying if he said he loved me?
This had been happening right from the start. I am frustrated. Now, I get a feeling he is not right person for me. Last three weeks I am crying telling him how I feel, for which he has an answer, “I don’t know why I behave like this”. Can’t he see my pain?
Also, he is very selfish he only think of himself. He does not give me any respect. I am angry and frustrated. I am 32 years old waiting for my husband to love me. I don’t have time as I want a baby also, but before that I want a good loving and a caring husband.
Now, if I feel I should divorce him. Am I feeling wrong? Also don’t I deserve love and physical intimacy from my husband? Am I asking too much?
He says do whatever I feel is right. If I feel I should divorce him, he says to go ahead and do it. Why did he marry me? I feel just to get rid of that previous girl.
As I understand I don’t nag him for anything. What should I do should I divorce him? Will I have a good life? Please help me.
Most of the times, women suffer much at the hands of husbands.
Take the flower remedy AGRIMONY and SWEET CHESTNUT, two pills, three times a day.
Chant “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME I LOVE YOU I THANK YOU”
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Might be menopause
Posted by Elsol
What is the best Switch Word to get rid of tingling sensation for hands especially at night while sleeping?
It may be a deficiency of ca mg and potassium. What is your age?
I am in my mid-forties.
Do you have any physical problem – diabetes or BP?
Yes, I have high BP and recently I am missing my periods for last 4 months. It might be menopause.
I suggest you to treat your high BP with pranayama and yoga.
Take calciphos, mag phos and kali phos, each 6x, buy these tablets from homeopathy shop and take three each, for three times a day.
Consult a doctor for menopause.
Take the Bach flower remedy WALNUT.
Chant the mantra, “VAJRESWARI VAAMADEVI VAYOVASTHAA VIVARJITHA” as many times as possible.
I did take allopathic medication. But, after several side effects, I started taking Ayurvedic medicine and was doing well.
But, last few months, 2 or 3 days before my period started, my BP always gets very low and gets normal after my period started. And after my period is over, I used to have high BP for a day. This was just like a routine for me.
I talked to my family doctor, he said it’s hormonal. On the top of that 2012 Feb, twice I had periods.
After that I lost my period for 4 months. Since Last year, 2012 Dec I am getting sick almost every day both physically and mentally.
I just can’t take this anymore. I want to live and enjoy life just like others.
If it is normal ignore it.
The body is trying to adjust to the menopause period. I suggested you WALNUT, which will help you to adjust.
Menopause is a period of hormonal withdrawal preparing the body to handle aging. Co-operate with the body by shedding your fear.
Take MIMULUS (for fear) along with Walnut. Our fear about the body prevents the body from healing itself.
Thank your periods, your uterus, and your menopause.
Chant “I allow the body to adjust to this phase of life”.
To know more about VAJRESWARI mantra, please check out: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/12/19/i-dont-want-to-be-bed-ridden-and-remain-youthful/
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