They don’t understand women’s concern

Geetha came to see me. She is 39-years old and an IT professional. She is the youngest in the family. Except her, everyone is married in her family.

Geetha

The only person I love is my father. He is very nice and understanding, even though at times he is rude to us – me and my mother, especially to my mother.

Naran

Do you have any male friends, even if they are your colleagues?

Geetha

Nope. I consider most of them are male chauvinistic. Of course, some of them are very friendly. But, I don’t find any of them seems to understand women’s concern and plight in this male-dominating world.

No doubt she is not married. When you don’t have a good opinion about the opposite sex, how will you get married? In turn, they will sense your anger sub-consciously and will stay away from you.

Of course, I didn’t tell her this. As they are strong beliefs, it will be very difficult to convince otherwise.

Naran

• Divide your age by 3, and heal all the parts.

Geetha

I don’t remember what happened during my childhood. How can I bring them to my consciousness?

Naran

It doesn’t matter. When you say, ‘I am putting my memories from age 0-13 into the Silver Triangle’, those memories will be automatically be placed inside the triangle.

• Now, heal your mother, find out when she got married, divide the age by 3, and heal all her parts.
• Heal her life till you were born.
• Heal your womb state.

The reason for healing the memories of the mother is, during one of the fighting episodes with her father, her mother would have thought, ‘I wish I am not married. Then I need not have gone through this” or “I wish not to have a baby-girl. Then she need not go through hell like me”. 

These thoughts would have affected Geetha’s decisions against getting married. Of course, it is not in her awareness and therefore, she won’t be able to heal it.

• Do the healing for your father.

She will be having mixed feelings about her father which would have made her form opinions about husbands in general. So she needs to heal them as well.

May you are blessed with a loving and a caring husband. Good Luck!!!

Career never took off

KC

I am 41 years old. My biggest disappointment is my career never really took off.

I was a bright student and topped university during master’s degree. The work opportunities that I got were after much hard work.

But the things never worked out at the workplace for some reason or the other. I always had problems with superiors. I had to quit and undergo humiliation.

In my life, most of the women I have encountered in the form of neighbours, friends, mother-in-law, boss, sister-in-law, sister, sometimes even mother, have shown and experienced their hatred and jealous side. I have suffered much humiliation.

The surprising part was when I analyse was they all wanted me to be under their control. I suffered and still suffering when I tried to free myself.

Money has always been a problem. Life at times seem directionless to me.

Naran

Analyse what you want.

Analyse your weak points within.

Judge yourself.

Classify yourself.

Find out which behaviour of yours or which belief or which opinion about others prevents you from getting affection from others.

Make a list and try not to behave in the same old fashion.

Chant, “I AM SORRY! PLEASE FORGIVE ME! I LOVE YOU! I THANK YOU DIVINE!” whenever you meet a person.

Let this run in your mind throughout.