Category Archives: Women’s Issues

Premature ovarian failure

Lakshmi

I’m 34yrs old and unmarried. I’m suffering from premature ovarian failure. I’m not getting periods. Doctor said they can’t do anything. I want to get my periods naturally and want to get married soon.

Pls help me so I can overcome his obstacle in my life.

Naran

Take the Bach flower remedies STAR OF BETHLEHEM, WALNUT, CRAB APPLE and GENTIAN

Explanation

STAR OF BETHLEHEM: to align with nature and to heal the probable past trauma

WALNUT: for transition

CRAB APPLE and GENTIAN: removes the blocks that prevent menstruation

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Not sure about my periods

Jana

For postponed periods you have suggested to chant GORSE, SCLERANTHUS. It is a good mantra for all ladies. Can you please tell me when to start chanting and how many times?

Naran

This can work only when one is not sure about the periods. Especially, when a function is there, some ladies will doubt within. “It may or it may not”

One is not sure of the period and wants to postpone it by any means. “May or may not” mentality will precipitate the matter and one will be out on the date of the function.

To overcome this only, I suggested the above remedies.

Related Blogs

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No love from husband

Aarti

Referring the blog: http://wp.me/ptUIO-2f

Very nice post!

But I have a doubt in mind. In my case, I and my husband got married 3 years back. He said he loved me and asked my father for our marriage. My father agreed (I also liked him). But, his parents were not ready for this (still they keep torturing me for the same) at the time of our marriage.

He was engaged to one girl forcefully by his parents. That girl use to torture him and dominate him for everything. We were friends at that time. He realized his love for me and approached my father for the same.

But after marriage everything changed. His parents tortured us though we are not staying together. He never loved me the way a husband loves his wife. Not even for the initial few days. Till date he has not said anything good to me, and no intimacy between us since we got married.

I never got emotional and physical love, which every girl dreams of when she is about to get married. I asked him to go to a doctor many times, but he never accepted he has any problems. I have cried a lot in front of him, but he laughs. How he can laugh when I am crying if he said he loved me?

This had been happening right from the start. I am frustrated. Now, I get a feeling he is not right person for me. Last three weeks I am crying telling him how I feel, for which he has an answer, “I don’t know why I behave like this”. Can’t he see my pain?

Also, he is very selfish he only think of himself. He does not give me any respect. I am angry and frustrated. I am 32 years old waiting for my husband to love me. I don’t have time as I want a baby also, but before that I want a good loving and a caring husband.

Now, if I feel I should divorce him. Am I feeling wrong? Also don’t I deserve love and physical intimacy from my husband? Am I asking too much?

He says do whatever I feel is right. If I feel I should divorce him, he says to go ahead and do it. Why did he marry me? I feel just to get rid of that previous girl.

As I understand I don’t nag him for anything. What should I do should I divorce him? Will I have a good life? Please help me.

Naran

Most of the times, women suffer much at the hands of husbands.

Take the flower remedy AGRIMONY and SWEET CHESTNUT, two pills, three times a day.

Chant “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME I LOVE YOU I THANK YOU”

Related Blogs

Go away from my life: http://wp.me/p39EiO-1N

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Lot of work at home

Roopa

Yesterday I enrolled to my MBA exams with the help of WOLF. After 7 years, I have started to study again. I want to study well and do my exams well.

But, my problem is at my husband’s house. I have a lot of work at home. My mother-in-law does not like me studying. I am also a working woman. Please help me what I can do to concentrate.

Naran

Take The Flower Remedies ELM, OAK and CHESTNUT BUD.

Related blog – “My job was made easy”: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2011/02/02/my-job-was-made-easy%E2%80%A6/

No words to describe my joy

Note: Radhika was allowed to do her father’s ceremony, which was usually done by the eldest son in her part of the world, thanks to healing her positive and negative opinions using Reiki.

Radhika

I thank flower remedies AGRIMONY, WILLOW, HEATHER, SWEET CHESTNUT, and HOLLY. There are no words to describe, only Ananda Kaneer (tears of joy in Tamil), which happened yesterday.  Miracle!

As per your instructions, I wrote all the negative points (I think) about me and my husband at the left hand side of the paper and the positive affirmations on the right hand side in an A4 size sheet.

I started giving Reiki to the paper and kept the paper at the backside of my father’s photograph on 12/5/12 night.   Before writing the same, I whole heartedly called up my sister-in-laws who are staying in Mysore and asked for forgiveness and talked to them ordinarily.

The same night, my sister Vanaja who had come to Chennai from Bangalore for one week with my mom called up. I did not receive it as I went to sleep. Yesterday morning on 13.5.12 at 6.00 am morning again they called up but willingly I didn’t pick because I was afraid that they may scold me.

Yesterday, evening my Brother in law sent me a SMS message stating that mom wants to perform the ceremony at my place.  Then I called up my mother and talked to her.  My husband also agreed to invite some close relatives of my father.

We are very happy and I started crying in front of my father’s photo.  My husband said whenever we think to do some good deed with interest and Shraddai (effort) then it happens. Money will not be a criterion.

I agreed to whatever he said.  We went together to fix the priest and the cook to make the necessary arrangements.

Naran! I am proud to be your student.  I still want to be your student.  All these years I had been attending your classes and doing Reiki. I find a lot of changes in me and around.

I had learnt a lesson that I should not hurt anybody. The moment I shed my adamancy, good things started happening. 

Forgiving is great action which is the powerful punishment I had learnt.  I am nothing, and I am nothing, divine grace is there, and only thing is that we should allow the divine grace to flow.

My husband started believing my Reiki practice since yesterday.  I realize my husband’s good heart.

God has given me good shelter, food and clothing and good family why I should go somewhere to perform my father’s ceremony?

Once again I bow to the above flowers and thanks to you, my guru. Love thanks divine!!!

Chanting during Menses

Chant Switch words and Remedies

GAYATRI

Can switch words and Bach flower remedies be chanted during menses for ladies?

Naran

Yes, you can.

But don’t chant mantras

M

Why women can’t chant mantra during menstrual period?  Is anything bad will happen?  Is any mantra allowed during cycles?

If by mistake we chant few times during periods in our mind, will it be harmful?

Naran

A period is a cleansing period. The body is letting go what is not required. When the mantra is chanted its energy also is rejected.

No it’s not harmful.

Will not indulge in crime

User One

On some occasions it feels appropriate to say ‘I’m not the doer’.

But, the problem is in understanding the following. When people perform crimes like murder, rape, many other brutal things, how can one be able to digest the fact that “I am not the doer. It is the Divine”?

Thanks in advance for your inputs.

Naran

Do not judge others’ actions.

If one develops the belief that Divine is the doer, he will not indulge in any crime.

Might be menopause

Lura

What is the best Switch Word to get rid of tingling sensation for hands especially at night while sleeping?

Naran

It may be a deficiency of ca mg and potassium. What is your age?

Lura

I am in my mid-forties.

Naran

Do you have any physical problem – diabetes or BP?

Lura

Yes, I have high BP and recently I am missing my periods for last 4 months. It might be menopause.

Naran

I suggest you to treat your high BP with pranayama and yoga.

Take calciphos, mag phos and kali phos, each 6x, buy these tablets from homeopathy shop and take three each, for three times a day.

Consult a doctor for menopause.

Take the Bach flower remedy WALNUT.

Chant the mantra, “VAJRESWARI VAAMADEVI VAYOVASTHAA VIVARJITHA” as many times as possible.

Lura

I did take allopathic medication. But, after several side effects, I started taking Ayurvedic medicine and was doing well.

But, last few months, 2 or 3 days before my period started, my BP always gets very low and gets normal after my period started. And after my period is over, I used to have high BP for a day. This was just like a routine for me.

I talked to my family doctor, he said it’s hormonal. On the top of that 2012 Feb, twice I had periods.

After that I lost my period for 4 months.  Since Last year, 2012 Dec I am getting sick almost every day both physically and mentally.

I just can’t take this anymore. I want to live and enjoy life just like others.

Naran

If it is normal ignore it.

The body is trying to adjust to the menopause period. I suggested you WALNUT, which will help you to adjust.

Menopause is a period of hormonal withdrawal preparing the body to handle aging. Co-operate with the body by shedding your fear.

Take MIMULUS (for fear) along with Walnut. Our fear about the body prevents the body from healing itself.

Thank your periods, your uterus, and your menopause.

Chant “I allow the body to adjust to this phase of life”.

Explanation

To know more about VAJRESWARI mantra, please check out:  http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/12/19/i-dont-want-to-be-bed-ridden-and-remain-youthful/

Monthly period pains

Vanaja

Please suggest some remedies to overcome monthly period pain. Since I am getting more pain I am taking leave to office that day.

Naran

Chant “WHITE CHESTNUT, WALNUT, RESCUE REMEDY, ROCK WATER” daily 100 times.

Explanation

Periodically comes at the same time – during menses: WHITE CHESTNUT

For proper transition – every monthly period is a transition for women: WALNUT

When the pain becomes unbearable: RESCUE REMEDY

To regularize the menses flow: ROCK WATER

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