Posted by Elsol
Referring the blog: http://wp.me/ptUIO-2f
Very nice post!
But I have a doubt in mind. In my case, I and my husband got married 3 years back. He said he loved me and asked my father for our marriage. My father agreed (I also liked him). But, his parents were not ready for this (still they keep torturing me for the same) at the time of our marriage.
He was engaged to one girl forcefully by his parents. That girl use to torture him and dominate him for everything. We were friends at that time. He realized his love for me and approached my father for the same.
But after marriage everything changed. His parents tortured us though we are not staying together. He never loved me the way a husband loves his wife. Not even for the initial few days. Till date he has not said anything good to me, and no intimacy between us since we got married.
I never got emotional and physical love, which every girl dreams of when she is about to get married. I asked him to go to a doctor many times, but he never accepted he has any problems. I have cried a lot in front of him, but he laughs. How he can laugh when I am crying if he said he loved me?
This had been happening right from the start. I am frustrated. Now, I get a feeling he is not right person for me. Last three weeks I am crying telling him how I feel, for which he has an answer, “I don’t know why I behave like this”. Can’t he see my pain?
Also, he is very selfish he only think of himself. He does not give me any respect. I am angry and frustrated. I am 32 years old waiting for my husband to love me. I don’t have time as I want a baby also, but before that I want a good loving and a caring husband.
Now, if I feel I should divorce him. Am I feeling wrong? Also don’t I deserve love and physical intimacy from my husband? Am I asking too much?
He says do whatever I feel is right. If I feel I should divorce him, he says to go ahead and do it. Why did he marry me? I feel just to get rid of that previous girl.
As I understand I don’t nag him for anything. What should I do should I divorce him? Will I have a good life? Please help me.
Most of the times, women suffer much at the hands of husbands.
Take the flower remedy AGRIMONY and SWEET CHESTNUT, two pills, three times a day.
Chant “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME I LOVE YOU I THANK YOU”
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Resolving conflict with your spouse: http://wp.me/ptUDX-4Y
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Posted by Elsol
On some occasions it feels appropriate to say ‘I’m not the doer’.
But, the problem is in understanding the following. When people perform crimes like murder, rape, many other brutal things, how can one be able to digest the fact that “I am not the doer. It is the Divine”?
Thanks in advance for your inputs.
Do not judge others’ actions.
If one develops the belief that Divine is the doer, he will not indulge in any crime.
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