No love from husband
Posted by Elsol
Referring the blog: http://wp.me/ptUIO-2f
Very nice post!
But I have a doubt in mind. In my case, I and my husband got married 3 years back. He said he loved me and asked my father for our marriage. My father agreed (I also liked him). But, his parents were not ready for this (still they keep torturing me for the same) at the time of our marriage.
He was engaged to one girl forcefully by his parents. That girl use to torture him and dominate him for everything. We were friends at that time. He realized his love for me and approached my father for the same.
But after marriage everything changed. His parents tortured us though we are not staying together. He never loved me the way a husband loves his wife. Not even for the initial few days. Till date he has not said anything good to me, and no intimacy between us since we got married.
I never got emotional and physical love, which every girl dreams of when she is about to get married. I asked him to go to a doctor many times, but he never accepted he has any problems. I have cried a lot in front of him, but he laughs. How he can laugh when I am crying if he said he loved me?
This had been happening right from the start. I am frustrated. Now, I get a feeling he is not right person for me. Last three weeks I am crying telling him how I feel, for which he has an answer, “I don’t know why I behave like this”. Can’t he see my pain?
Also, he is very selfish he only think of himself. He does not give me any respect. I am angry and frustrated. I am 32 years old waiting for my husband to love me. I don’t have time as I want a baby also, but before that I want a good loving and a caring husband.
Now, if I feel I should divorce him. Am I feeling wrong? Also don’t I deserve love and physical intimacy from my husband? Am I asking too much?
He says do whatever I feel is right. If I feel I should divorce him, he says to go ahead and do it. Why did he marry me? I feel just to get rid of that previous girl.
As I understand I don’t nag him for anything. What should I do should I divorce him? Will I have a good life? Please help me.
Most of the times, women suffer much at the hands of husbands.
Take the flower remedy AGRIMONY and SWEET CHESTNUT, two pills, three times a day.
Chant “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME I LOVE YOU I THANK YOU”
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No words to describe my joy
Posted by Elsol
Note: Radhika was allowed to do her father’s ceremony, which was usually done by the eldest son in her part of the world, thanks to healing her positive and negative opinions using Reiki.
I thank flower remedies AGRIMONY, WILLOW, HEATHER, SWEET CHESTNUT, and HOLLY. There are no words to describe, only Ananda Kaneer (tears of joy in Tamil), which happened yesterday. Miracle!
As per your instructions, I wrote all the negative points (I think) about me and my husband at the left hand side of the paper and the positive affirmations on the right hand side in an A4 size sheet.
I started giving Reiki to the paper and kept the paper at the backside of my father’s photograph on 12/5/12 night. Before writing the same, I whole heartedly called up my sister-in-laws who are staying in Mysore and asked for forgiveness and talked to them ordinarily.
The same night, my sister Vanaja who had come to Chennai from Bangalore for one week with my mom called up. I did not receive it as I went to sleep. Yesterday morning on 13.5.12 at 6.00 am morning again they called up but willingly I didn’t pick because I was afraid that they may scold me.
Yesterday, evening my Brother in law sent me a SMS message stating that mom wants to perform the ceremony at my place. Then I called up my mother and talked to her. My husband also agreed to invite some close relatives of my father.
We are very happy and I started crying in front of my father’s photo. My husband said whenever we think to do some good deed with interest and Shraddai (effort) then it happens. Money will not be a criterion.
I agreed to whatever he said. We went together to fix the priest and the cook to make the necessary arrangements.
Naran! I am proud to be your student. I still want to be your student. All these years I had been attending your classes and doing Reiki. I find a lot of changes in me and around.
I had learnt a lesson that I should not hurt anybody. The moment I shed my adamancy, good things started happening.
Forgiving is great action which is the powerful punishment I had learnt. I am nothing, and I am nothing, divine grace is there, and only thing is that we should allow the divine grace to flow.
My husband started believing my Reiki practice since yesterday. I realize my husband’s good heart.
God has given me good shelter, food and clothing and good family why I should go somewhere to perform my father’s ceremony?
Once again I bow to the above flowers and thanks to you, my guru. Love thanks divine!!!
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