Woman of Thanks

Overweight girl

I feel very low and depressed today.I am unhappy with my job.

I’m struggling to understand stuff and not anyone to talk to.

What can I chant to become popular at work, change departments and be happy and have people to talk to?

I want to get up and love to go to work? Is that possible? What am I doing wrong Naran?

I need the money and am fed up of slaving at low paid jobs? I need to be happy and not miserable.

I am very hard worker and learn things fast but I think people fail to see that and I never get an opportunity to show that.

I did my engineering but don’t mind doing admin or reception jobs as long as I’m happy- please help Naran?


I am fed up of slaving at low paid jobs? This thought is working against the following one, “I need to be happy and not miserable”.

“I am very hard worker” means that you are not working with full heart.

You are entitled to do the work only. Love the work on hand. Contribute fully.

If the management does not pay, you are also working with the feeling of anger resentment, and disappointment.

With these feelings, how can one contribute fully? Give 100% whether you receive appreciation in terms of money or word.

Everyday thank the morning. Start the day with attitude of gratitude.

I thank the divine for providing this job to me. Thank your management. Thank your colleagues.

Thank every event that is happening in your life.

When you get the salary, instead of feeling dejected, profusely thank the divine for giving the amount, you need and not the money you desire.

Divine wants you to thank and waiting for your gratitude to offer more.

Don’t judge the event or person as good or bad, as wanted or unwanted.

Thank your parents, thank your family thank your environment. Fill up whatever you see, with thanks.

Turn into a woman of thanks. Then see the life.

Thanks will make you love your life again. Thanks will fill up your life with light and life.

You are here to work for the Divine; it is Divine which is giving your salary. Thank!Thank!!

Overweight girl

I’m very happy with what god has given me and never fail to be in gratitude and thank–still I’m unhappy and don’t know what to do.


Then why are you unhappy?

If anyone is in gratitude, he can never be unhappy. Do not deceive yourself by saying that you are very happy with what god has given you. Ego is a great deceiver.

By refusing to learn or by justifying what one does, one never progresses. Do what I said.

Overweight girl

I do not know if I have ego!! But this is what I said and meant when I said I’m happy with what god had given me: I get three meals a day,I have clothes to cover me, I have a great husband and child,I have no disability and so on.

What I lack is: Idon’t have a job or career. Idon’t have friends. Idon’t have a good relationship with my brother n his family. I feel very lonely and fed up of speaking to myself all the time.My parents live alone and I worry a lot about them as they do not want to live with me and my brother does not seem to care about them.

I suppose one cannot have everything in life but still keep asking God as to why me!!If this is what you call ego then pls tell me how to get rid of it.


Your ego is still resisting to do what I said. You asked about the job situation. My reply is for that only. With resentment and unhappiness how can one give 100%?

Overweight girl

Pls tell me what to chant to get rid of ego and get the results soon.


Chant “I allow light and life to fill my life”.

About Elsol

Naran balakumar is a herbalist practising bach flower therapy for the last 21 years. Naran is a Reiki master teacher.

Posted on July 16, 2013, in Career, Life, Relationships. Bookmark the permalink. 4 Comments.

  1. Dear Guruji,
    Namaskar. I dont know whether I am right or wrong. In the last line Chant “I allow light and love to fill my life”, is it not ?

  2. Hi sir,
    I have problem regarding my menses, it’s very irregular.i did all the tests and everything is normal .Doctor suggested to let it heal naturally.Now the problem is we are trying for our second baby but because of this problem it’s difficult for me to conceive cause predicting ovulation is very difficult also sometimes the cycle lasts for more than 15 days. I really don’t understand what to do. Please help me !

  3. Dear Naran,
    Pranam! I am 29 years old, still struggling with my education. I always try to start something new in my life with positivity but end up failing. My parents have found a guy for marriage who is more interested in my past. I am confused if he is the right guy. How do I KNOW whether I am marrying the right guy! Are there any SIGNS that he is my SOULMATE? Please guide on this! I feel trapped because of all this! What should I chant to make a perfect decision on choosing the best life partner for me! I am pretty indecisive too!

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