Forgiving mind

Nabanita

I had a conflict with my husband on a serious issue. He is actually a very honest and a wonderful person, but very conservative and suspicious – especially about me.

Today, he blamed me for a thing that I didn’t do. At present, I am at my parents’ house. He called me, was so rude with me and said he didn’t want to see my face again! I was so much upset and heart-broken.

Suddenly I found a ray of divine light and faith, as I didn’t do anything wrong and nothing could be wrong with me!

Immediately, I closed my eyes and sat in Safe and Secure Mudra and chanted the flower remedies “Beach, Walnut, Willow, Agrimony, Chicory, Cherry Plum”.

I also did the forgiveness exercise.

Then I chanted “SRI RAM JAYA RAM JAYA JAYA RAM” continuously.

Within an hour, he called me and everything was normal once again. He is coming to take me soon. I am so happy. Thanks to divine and thanks to Naran for his unconditional help to mankind.

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Not sure about my periods

Jana

For postponed periods you have suggested to chant GORSE, SCLERANTHUS. It is a good mantra for all ladies. Can you please tell me when to start chanting and how many times?

Naran

This can work only when one is not sure about the periods. Especially, when a function is there, some ladies will doubt within. “It may or it may not”

One is not sure of the period and wants to postpone it by any means. “May or may not” mentality will precipitate the matter and one will be out on the date of the function.

To overcome this only, I suggested the above remedies.

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No words to describe my joy

Note: Radhika was allowed to do her father’s ceremony, which was usually done by the eldest son in her part of the world, thanks to healing her positive and negative opinions using Reiki.

Radhika

I thank flower remedies AGRIMONY, WILLOW, HEATHER, SWEET CHESTNUT, and HOLLY. There are no words to describe, only Ananda Kaneer (tears of joy in Tamil), which happened yesterday.  Miracle!

As per your instructions, I wrote all the negative points (I think) about me and my husband at the left hand side of the paper and the positive affirmations on the right hand side in an A4 size sheet.

I started giving Reiki to the paper and kept the paper at the backside of my father’s photograph on 12/5/12 night.   Before writing the same, I whole heartedly called up my sister-in-laws who are staying in Mysore and asked for forgiveness and talked to them ordinarily.

The same night, my sister Vanaja who had come to Chennai from Bangalore for one week with my mom called up. I did not receive it as I went to sleep. Yesterday morning on 13.5.12 at 6.00 am morning again they called up but willingly I didn’t pick because I was afraid that they may scold me.

Yesterday, evening my Brother in law sent me a SMS message stating that mom wants to perform the ceremony at my place.  Then I called up my mother and talked to her.  My husband also agreed to invite some close relatives of my father.

We are very happy and I started crying in front of my father’s photo.  My husband said whenever we think to do some good deed with interest and Shraddai (effort) then it happens. Money will not be a criterion.

I agreed to whatever he said.  We went together to fix the priest and the cook to make the necessary arrangements.

Naran! I am proud to be your student.  I still want to be your student.  All these years I had been attending your classes and doing Reiki. I find a lot of changes in me and around.

I had learnt a lesson that I should not hurt anybody. The moment I shed my adamancy, good things started happening. 

Forgiving is great action which is the powerful punishment I had learnt.  I am nothing, and I am nothing, divine grace is there, and only thing is that we should allow the divine grace to flow.

My husband started believing my Reiki practice since yesterday.  I realize my husband’s good heart.

God has given me good shelter, food and clothing and good family why I should go somewhere to perform my father’s ceremony?

Once again I bow to the above flowers and thanks to you, my guru. Love thanks divine!!!

Might be menopause

Lura

What is the best Switch Word to get rid of tingling sensation for hands especially at night while sleeping?

Naran

It may be a deficiency of ca mg and potassium. What is your age?

Lura

I am in my mid-forties.

Naran

Do you have any physical problem – diabetes or BP?

Lura

Yes, I have high BP and recently I am missing my periods for last 4 months. It might be menopause.

Naran

I suggest you to treat your high BP with pranayama and yoga.

Take calciphos, mag phos and kali phos, each 6x, buy these tablets from homeopathy shop and take three each, for three times a day.

Consult a doctor for menopause.

Take the Bach flower remedy WALNUT.

Chant the mantra, “VAJRESWARI VAAMADEVI VAYOVASTHAA VIVARJITHA” as many times as possible.

Lura

I did take allopathic medication. But, after several side effects, I started taking Ayurvedic medicine and was doing well.

But, last few months, 2 or 3 days before my period started, my BP always gets very low and gets normal after my period started. And after my period is over, I used to have high BP for a day. This was just like a routine for me.

I talked to my family doctor, he said it’s hormonal. On the top of that 2012 Feb, twice I had periods.

After that I lost my period for 4 months.  Since Last year, 2012 Dec I am getting sick almost every day both physically and mentally.

I just can’t take this anymore. I want to live and enjoy life just like others.

Naran

If it is normal ignore it.

The body is trying to adjust to the menopause period. I suggested you WALNUT, which will help you to adjust.

Menopause is a period of hormonal withdrawal preparing the body to handle aging. Co-operate with the body by shedding your fear.

Take MIMULUS (for fear) along with Walnut. Our fear about the body prevents the body from healing itself.

Thank your periods, your uterus, and your menopause.

Chant “I allow the body to adjust to this phase of life”.

Explanation

To know more about VAJRESWARI mantra, please check out:  http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/12/19/i-dont-want-to-be-bed-ridden-and-remain-youthful/

They don’t understand women’s concern

Geetha came to see me. She is 39-years old and an IT professional. She is the youngest in the family. Except her, everyone is married in her family.

Geetha

The only person I love is my father. He is very nice and understanding, even though at times he is rude to us – me and my mother, especially to my mother.

Naran

Do you have any male friends, even if they are your colleagues?

Geetha

Nope. I consider most of them are male chauvinistic. Of course, some of them are very friendly. But, I don’t find any of them seems to understand women’s concern and plight in this male-dominating world.

No doubt she is not married. When you don’t have a good opinion about the opposite sex, how will you get married? In turn, they will sense your anger sub-consciously and will stay away from you.

Of course, I didn’t tell her this. As they are strong beliefs, it will be very difficult to convince otherwise.

Naran

• Divide your age by 3, and heal all the parts.

Geetha

I don’t remember what happened during my childhood. How can I bring them to my consciousness?

Naran

It doesn’t matter. When you say, ‘I am putting my memories from age 0-13 into the Silver Triangle’, those memories will be automatically be placed inside the triangle.

• Now, heal your mother, find out when she got married, divide the age by 3, and heal all her parts.
• Heal her life till you were born.
• Heal your womb state.

The reason for healing the memories of the mother is, during one of the fighting episodes with her father, her mother would have thought, ‘I wish I am not married. Then I need not have gone through this” or “I wish not to have a baby-girl. Then she need not go through hell like me”. 

These thoughts would have affected Geetha’s decisions against getting married. Of course, it is not in her awareness and therefore, she won’t be able to heal it.

• Do the healing for your father.

She will be having mixed feelings about her father which would have made her form opinions about husbands in general. So she needs to heal them as well.

May you are blessed with a loving and a caring husband. Good Luck!!!

Career never took off

KC

I am 41 years old. My biggest disappointment is my career never really took off.

I was a bright student and topped university during master’s degree. The work opportunities that I got were after much hard work.

But the things never worked out at the workplace for some reason or the other. I always had problems with superiors. I had to quit and undergo humiliation.

In my life, most of the women I have encountered in the form of neighbours, friends, mother-in-law, boss, sister-in-law, sister, sometimes even mother, have shown and experienced their hatred and jealous side. I have suffered much humiliation.

The surprising part was when I analyse was they all wanted me to be under their control. I suffered and still suffering when I tried to free myself.

Money has always been a problem. Life at times seem directionless to me.

Naran

Analyse what you want.

Analyse your weak points within.

Judge yourself.

Classify yourself.

Find out which behaviour of yours or which belief or which opinion about others prevents you from getting affection from others.

Make a list and try not to behave in the same old fashion.

Chant, “I AM SORRY! PLEASE FORGIVE ME! I LOVE YOU! I THANK YOU DIVINE!” whenever you meet a person.

Let this run in your mind throughout.