On some occasions it feels appropriate to say ‘I’m not the doer’.
But, the problem is in understanding the following. When people perform crimes like murder, rape, many other brutal things, how can one be able to digest the fact that “I am not the doer. It is the Divine”?
Thanks in advance for your inputs.
Do not judge others’ actions.
If one develops the belief that Divine is the doer, he will not indulge in any crime.
I’m in my thirties. Don’t know why, I’m very much worried of menopause. Like what will happen if there is an early menopause.
I don’t want early menopause at least up to late forties or early fifties.
Take the flower remedy ASPEN two pills three times a day
For all fears with no known reasons: ASPEN
We often observe (I saw in my life) that when two people fall in love or marriage arranged by parents, very early in relationship, boys tend to get physical. Sometimes, it may be by speech only.
Is that a normal human nature?
As I had faced it, I always carry a belief that my loved one wants me only physically. I fear that may be after marriage when he gets me, his love for me will vanish.
Is love is related with this urge?
How do we know that the opposite person loves us both mentally and physically, and not just by physical attraction alone?
For the readers, I am not giving any universal judgment. So please don’t take it personally. I know my question is not exactly a problem but I somehow I feel this way.
Do not go by assumption or expect things in a certain way.
Life is trust only.
Giving love without expectation, changing oneself instead of desiring to change the other person, and not to feel dejected over failure are some of the ways by which we can manage our mind.
Life is fundamentally management of the mind. It is not concerned with others.
Actually I always think that men want only that kind of love from me. They don’t like me as a person.
A woman’s energy flows down from her heart to her genitals, she needs emotional connection, and she needs to feel safe before she is ready for a physical connection.
It is the reverse for a man. His energy flows up so his desire starts in his genitals and finishes in his heart.
Women start from the HEART centre, while for men it starts from the HARA centre. This is to be understood and that is why touching his heart like a mother is to be done.
Your last line is simply wonderful. Love him like mother. I am so pleased by your answer.
If every people change his or her own view to accept others then I am sure there will be no misunderstanding.
Thank you! I will try to think like this.
I feel very low and depressed today.I am unhappy with my job.
I’m struggling to understand stuff and not anyone to talk to.
What can I chant to become popular at work, change departments and be happy and have people to talk to?
I want to get up and love to go to work? Is that possible? What am I doing wrong Naran?
I need the money and am fed up of slaving at low paid jobs? I need to be happy and not miserable.
I am very hard worker and learn things fast but I think people fail to see that and I never get an opportunity to show that.
I did my engineering but don’t mind doing admin or reception jobs as long as I’m happy- please help Naran?
I am fed up of slaving at low paid jobs? This thought is working against the following one, “I need to be happy and not miserable”.
“I am very hard worker” means that you are not working with full heart.
You are entitled to do the work only. Love the work on hand. Contribute fully.
If the management does not pay, you are also working with the feeling of anger resentment, and disappointment.
With these feelings, how can one contribute fully? Give 100% whether you receive appreciation in terms of money or word.
Everyday thank the morning. Start the day with attitude of gratitude.
I thank the divine for providing this job to me. Thank your management. Thank your colleagues.
Thank every event that is happening in your life.
When you get the salary, instead of feeling dejected, profusely thank the divine for giving the amount, you need and not the money you desire.
Divine wants you to thank and waiting for your gratitude to offer more.
Don’t judge the event or person as good or bad, as wanted or unwanted.
Thank your parents, thank your family thank your environment. Fill up whatever you see, with thanks.
Turn into a woman of thanks. Then see the life.
Thanks will make you love your life again. Thanks will fill up your life with light and life.
You are here to work for the Divine; it is Divine which is giving your salary. Thank!Thank!!
I’m very happy with what god has given me and never fail to be in gratitude and thank–still I’m unhappy and don’t know what to do.
Then why are you unhappy?
If anyone is in gratitude, he can never be unhappy. Do not deceive yourself by saying that you are very happy with what god has given you. Ego is a great deceiver.
By refusing to learn or by justifying what one does, one never progresses. Do what I said.
I do not know if I have ego!! But this is what I said and meant when I said I’m happy with what god had given me: I get three meals a day,I have clothes to cover me, I have a great husband and child,I have no disability and so on.
What I lack is: Idon’t have a job or career. Idon’t have friends. Idon’t have a good relationship with my brother n his family. I feel very lonely and fed up of speaking to myself all the time.My parents live alone and I worry a lot about them as they do not want to live with me and my brother does not seem to care about them.
I suppose one cannot have everything in life but still keep asking God as to why me!!If this is what you call ego then pls tell me how to get rid of it.
Your ego is still resisting to do what I said. You asked about the job situation. My reply is for that only. With resentment and unhappiness how can one give 100%?
Pls tell me what to chant to get rid of ego and get the results soon.
Chant “I allow light and life to fill my life”.
Geetha came to see me. She is 39-years old and an IT professional. She is the youngest in the family. Except her, everyone is married in her family.
The only person I love is my father. He is very nice and understanding, even though at times he is rude to us – me and my mother, especially to my mother.
Do you have any male friends, even if they are your colleagues?
Nope. I consider most of them are male chauvinistic. Of course, some of them are very friendly. But, I don’t find any of them seems to understand women’s concern and plight in this male-dominating world.
No doubt she is not married. When you don’t have a good opinion about the opposite sex, how will you get married? In turn, they will sense your anger sub-consciously and will stay away from you.
Of course, I didn’t tell her this. As they are strong beliefs, it will be very difficult to convince otherwise.
- Divide your age by 3, and heal all the parts.
I don’t remember what happened during my childhood. How can I bring them to my consciousness?
It doesn’t matter. When you say, ‘I am putting my memories from age 0-13 into the Silver Triangle’, those memories will be automatically be placed inside the triangle.
- Now, heal your mother, find out when she got married, divide the age by 3, and heal all her parts.
- Heal her life till you were born.
- Heal your womb state.
The reason for healing the memories of the mother is, during one of the fighting episodes with her father, her mother would have thought, ‘I wish I am not married. Then I need not have gone through this” or “I wish not to have a baby-girl. Then she need not go through hell like me”.
These thoughts would have affected Geetha’s decisions against getting married. Of course, it is not in her awareness and therefore, she won’t be able to heal it.
- Do the healing for your father.
She will be having mixed feelings about her father which would have made her form opinions about husbands in general. So she needs to heal them as well.
May you are blessed with a loving and a caring husband. Good Luck!!!
Please suggest some remedies to overcome monthly period pain. Since I am getting more pain I am taking leave to office that day.
Chant “WHITE CHESTNUT, WALNUT, RESCUE REMEDY, ROCK WATER” daily 100 times.
Periodically comes at the same time – during menses: WHITE CHESTNUT
For proper transition – every monthly period is a transition for women: WALNUT
When the pain becomes unbearable: RESCUE REMEDY
To regularize the menses flow: ROCK WATER
I am 41 years old. My biggest disappointment is my career never really took off.
I was a bright student and topped university during master’s degree. The work opportunities that I got were after much hard work.
But the things never worked out at the workplace for some reason or the other. I always had problems with superiors. I had to quit and undergo humiliation.
In my life, most of the women I have encountered in the form of neighbours, friends, mother-in-law, boss, sister-in-law, sister, sometimes even mother, have shown and experienced their hatred and jealous side. I have suffered much humiliation.
The surprising part was when I analyse was they all wanted me to be under their control. I suffered and still suffering when I tried to free myself.
Money has always been a problem. Life at times seem directionless to me.
Analyse what you want.
Analyse your weak points within.
Find out which behaviour of yours or which belief or which opinion about others prevents you from getting affection from others.
Make a list and try not to behave in the same old fashion.
Chant, “I AM SORRY! PLEASE FORGIVE ME! I LOVE YOU! I THANK YOU DIVINE!” whenever you meet a person.
Let this run in your mind throughout.
One lady is in Dubai, while her sister lives in New Zealand.
It was a menopause period for her. She started saying that she will leave the house for good as she does not want anybody in her life.
She used to shout non-stop saying that she does not need anybody in her family.
So her sister phoned up to me and told about the problem.
I asked her to write the name of the person on a piece of paper and go on chanting Kunzite.
Within next two days the lady became alright.
During a menopause, especially for hot flashes, Kunzite works well.