They don’t understand women’s concern

Geetha came to see me. She is 39-years old and an IT professional. She is the youngest in the family. Except her, everyone is married in her family.

Geetha

The only person I love is my father. He is very nice and understanding, even though at times he is rude to us – me and my mother, especially to my mother.

Naran

Do you have any male friends, even if they are your colleagues?

Geetha

Nope. I consider most of them are male chauvinistic. Of course, some of them are very friendly. But, I don’t find any of them seems to understand women’s concern and plight in this male-dominating world.

No doubt she is not married. When you don’t have a good opinion about the opposite sex, how will you get married? In turn, they will sense your anger sub-consciously and will stay away from you.

Of course, I didn’t tell her this. As they are strong beliefs, it will be very difficult to convince otherwise.

Naran

  • Divide your age by 3, and heal all the parts.

Geetha

I don’t remember what happened during my childhood. How can I bring them to my consciousness?

Naran

It doesn’t matter. When you say, ‘I am putting my memories from age 0-13 into the Silver Triangle’, those memories will be automatically be placed inside the triangle.

  • Now, heal your mother, find out when she got married, divide the age by 3, and heal all her parts.
  • Heal her life till you were born.
  • Heal your womb state.

The reason for healing the memories of the mother is, during one of the fighting episodes with her father, her mother would have thought, ‘I wish I am not married. Then I need not have gone through this” or “I wish not to have a baby-girl. Then she need not go through hell like me”. 

These thoughts would have affected Geetha’s decisions against getting married. Of course, it is not in her awareness and therefore, she won’t be able to heal it.

  • Do the healing for your father.

She will be having mixed feelings about her father which would have made her form opinions about husbands in general. So she needs to heal them as well.

May you are blessed with a loving and a caring husband. Good Luck!!!

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About Naran S. Balakumar

Naran balakumar is a herbalist practising bach flower therapy for the last 11 years. Naran is a Reiki master teacher.

Posted on July 12, 2013, in Marriage and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.

  1. Though married very at for my situation as well. Thank u for the post. Shall heal my parents.

  2. a girl in need

    how is this healing done?

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